I heard a story of a young man who loves and cares for his wife. He gave her all the attention she needed before marriage and while they were together. Ten years after the marriage, when there was no childbirth, the attitude of the man changed. It became impossible for the wife to pick what happened to all the romantic affection the husband usually showed her. When the man was asked what happened, he said I am tired of this marriage.
After the eleventh year, the man filed for divorce. He said, ” I am tired of making love to a man, my wife is a man, she can’t give me a child.”
In Africa, this is one of the major reasons why couples file for Break-Up. Even though if you want to call it off with your wife whom you promised to love in sickness and health, delay of childbirth is not a genuine reason to do so!
You will be a man that will always quit whenever there are challenges. The thought of you not being able to stay with your wife in these trying times will always haunt you for the rest of your life and it will not bring out the best in you. You will not be able to speak among your friends, you will lose your respect and stand with God. He knows that you will be able to overcome this challenge, that is why He brought it to you so that people can learn from you. So, if you abort this process of your greatness, you will have yourself to be blamed because your success will come out from this challenge. I know you have tried and I also know you still love and care for your woman, but throwing in the towel is not the answer to that problem. At this point, one of the things you need is to bring back your LOVE and CARE.
You should also check out your purpose for loving that woman. Like what I read in the book, Before The Love Song Fades, by Adenike Akinremi, where the author shared her story of how she had to wait for 10 years before she had her baby and how she also handled the issue of divorce when it came up in her home.
I believe you will learn how to bring back your love songs ,how to overcome challenges that might want to lead to divorce and how to handle conflicts when it arises again in your home – by just getting a copy of this book.