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10 ATTRIBUTES TO LOOK OUT FOR WHEN CHOOSING A CHURCH, BY KUNLE YUSUF

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It has often been said that there is no perfect church. But there is also no perfect congregation. As the old joke goes, if you find a perfect church, you should not join it, because if you do, it won’t be perfect anymore. Whenever sinners work together in close quarters, whether in churches or in families, conflict and disappointment will arise.  Regardless of flaws, however, God designed us to need one another, and for the church to need us. But how do you find a good church? What are the qualities to look out for? I am super – excited to let you know that these ten (10) hints would provide the answers.

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Is this Church centered on the Gospel of Jesus Christ?
You can tell what really matters to a church by what is emphasized from the pulpit, discussed by the people, and even displayed on the walls. Sometimes I will ask ordinary members, ”Why do you go to this church? ”Some like a church because it supports  home-schooling or a Christian school, because of the great kids’ programmes, or even because it has no programme for children and youth. Some attend a church because of a famous preacher, or because the right people, including celebrities, go there. Some like a church because of the political activism of its members. Some churches focus on their heritage in church history or a confession of faith. But Paul tells the Corinthians, ” I determined to know nothing among you except Jesus Christ, and Him crucified”. (1 Corinthians 2:2).

 

Does this church stand firm on sound Biblical doctrines?
You can get an idea of what a church believes by reading its doctrinal statement or confession of faith, but you also need to listen carefully to what is standing firm on Biblical doctrine (Titus 1:9; 2:1). Some churches have strayed from their Biblical heritage. The most important doctrine on which a church must be clear is that of salvation (Galatians 1:8). As well as this, a church should also affirm that the Bible is inspired – God- breathed (2 Timothy 3:16) and inerrant – the sole authority for faith and practice. A church must also affirm the sufficiency of scripture to equip us for every good work for life and godliness (2 Timothy 3:17; 2 Peter 1:3).

 

Is the Bible faithfully preached week after week?
A faithful preacher preaches only the Word of God, his sole authority. He also preaches all of the Word – the whole counsel of God ( Acts 20:27), including the difficult parts about God’s holy wrath against sin. A faithful preacher doesn’t  merely encourage, but he also reproves and rebukes sins. All faithful preaching will be grounded in the gospel (what God has done for us). Paul said that he was eager to go to  Rome to preach the gospel to believers (Romans 1:15). When you visit a church, ask yourself this question: Is this preaching faithful to the word of God? Is this a place where my family could be fed the word of God week after week?

 

Is the worship Biblical and God-centred?
The most important person we are to seek to please in our worship is God himself. He seeks worshippers who worship in spirit and in truth (sincerely and from the heart) John 4: 23-24. Not all worship is acceptable to God (Isaiah 1:14; Matthew 15:8-9). Under the old covenant, God precisely prescribed the way His people were to worship Him. God’s worship is still holy under the new covenant. Some in the early church who did not respect  God’s holiness in worship became sick and others died (1 Corinthians 11:29-31; Acts 5:1-10). The New Testament also reveals how we are to worship God under the new covenant.
Are the leaders Biblically qualified and mutually accountable? Church leadership in our day often seeks to reflect the charisma, drive, and vision which our culture looks for in leaders in business or politics. ”Successful” Christian leaders (meaning those with large churches and ministries) write books on leadership which seem based more upon management and marketing techniques than upon scripture. In these models, the leader is regarded as the key to success. The New Testament, however, makes it clear that the head and chief shepherd ( Senior Pastor) of the church is Christ (1 Peter 5:4; Ephesians 1:22; 5:23) and that leaders are under shepherds.

 

Do the leaders/ pastors shepherd the sheep?
Both Paul and Peter exhort church leaders to shepherd God’s flock (Act 20:28; 1 Peter 5:2). Church leaders are reminded that they will give account to God on how they have tended the sheep He entrusted to their care (Hebrews  13:17). Some leaders are so driven to grow the church by attracting more people  and resources that they don’t have time to get involved in helping the hurting sheep that are already part of the flock.
Many pastors refuse to invest time in counseling individuals and families through conflicts and crises. Some do not believe that they are called to do so, but refer their members to outside ”Professional Counsellors” who may offer unbiblical advice. Are the leaders committed and equipped to minister God’s word, not just publicly before a crowd, but also to individuals and families who need comfort and encouragement (Acts 20:20)?

 

Does this Church practice Biblical church discipline?
Jesus is deeply concerned about the purity of His church, both in doctrine and in practice. He is also concerned about the influence that doctrinal error and immorality may have on others in the church. ”A little leaven leavens the whole lump of dough” (1 Corinthians 5:6). In our day, local churches tend to go to one of two extremes when it comes to discipline. Most commonly fail to practice church discipline. Little or no effort is made to correct and, if necessary, remove members who are involved in immorality or other serious sin, or who promote false and divisive teaching. At the opposite extreme, a few churches, perhaps reacting against the laxness of the majority, are harsh in their discipline. They put people out for minor doctrinal differences or infractions. Ungodly leaders use discipline to protect themselves against those who threaten their power (3 John 9:10). Biblical church discipline is to be carried out in a gentle, loving, and orderly fashion with the purpose of restoring the wayward brother or sister (Galatians 6:1; 2 Corinthians 2:6-8; Matthew 18:12-15) and upholding the honour of Christ.

 

Does this Church community have a culture of grace, love, and peace?
God accepts us, not based upon outward appearance or even our works, but by His grace towards us in Christ. Are people accepted and welcome into this church regardless of age, ethnicity, social background, spiritual weakness, or differences as regards secondary issues (such as educational choices for children, views on food and drink, the place of children and youth programmes in the church, views of the end times rapture, etc)? Because we are still sinners, you will never find a church in which there is no conflict. But is this church one in which members deal with their differences by showing grace toward one another (Proverbs 19:11; 1Peter 4:8) and by pursuing peace (Romans 12:18; Hebrews 12:14)? Do people seek to resolve their conflicts in a direct, Biblical and gentle way (Matthew 18:15; Galatians 6:1), rather than participating in slander, gossip and bullying?

 

Does this church have an outward focus- missions, evangelism, and church planting?
Some churches are such close families that it is hard for an outsider to break into them. Other churches are so concerned with precision in their doctrine and practice that they expend more energy keeping the wrong people out than in welcoming those from the outside. Jesus has given us the great commission to bring His gospel to the world so that disciples can be made to serve and worship Him (Matthew 28:18-20; Acts 1:8). Sadly, many churches grow primarily by attracting sheep from other local flocks. Is this church seeking to grow through conversions? Are members of this church encouraged and equipped to practice personal evangelism?

Kunle Yusuf pastors in the Redeemed Christian Church Of God. He can be reached on 08023423396 or [email protected]

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